To further the concepts of the Biorhythms and Friendship concepts, we
now move into the a closer relationship of two individuals in terms of
Love and Romance, and why some people get along and others don't.
Physical attraction is usually what opens the door, but what happens
once you get into the room is dependent on compatibility. Physical
attraction (i.e. looks) will work for the first date, but whether
dating will continue depends entirely on how much these people have in
common. Alternatively, if physical attraction is not part of the
original intent, having spent some time with a person that is very
compatible can nonetheless lead to a good long term relationship, and
even Love and Romance.
Based on my own research on this topic, in order for Love and Romance
to flourish in a relationship, the most important biorhythm to be
compatible is the emotional cycle. To be in the same 'mood' is very
important for any relationship to last. High compatibility in the
physical biorhythmic cycle is no doubt a powerful ingredient, and you
might have the time of your life for the first little while, but Lust
alone cannot sustain a relationship. A physical cycle compatibility,
which is in effect lust, only carries you so far. Eventually you need
to talk. Eventually you need to feel. Eventually, you need to connect,
so if there is nothing but physical compatibility, it will not last. I
have observed people that have bounced from partner to partner to
partner, focusing only on the physical component, and then wondering
why they can never find somebody permanent, something that lasts.
Love and Romance is not the physical biorhythm, and it is not the
intellectual biorhythm, although both are good to have to back up the
relationship. Love and Romance is the emotional cycle. Over time, an
emotional mismatch will always manifest itself in the same way: "You
never want to have fun." But this is not the case. They just don't want
to have fun when you want to have fun, and they don't want to be down
and depressed when you what to be down and depressed. There is no
perfect shoe and there is no perfect foot, there is only a perfect shoe
for a certain foot. So if the slipper doesn't fit, chances are this is
not your Cinderella, or Prince Charming.
So, as an exercise to more successful dating and more love and romance,
download the Biorhytm calculator, and start scanning people for whether
your biorhythms are compatible, and more importantly, which ones. Live
is too short to keep dating the wrong type of person.
Disclaimer: This information is based on private research, and should not
be used in place of professional advice. The Author is not a trained counsellor, psychologist,
doctor, or any other type of researcher. You act on this advice at your own risk.
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